If someone does something wrong to us..something very wrong… can we bless them? Can we give blessings to them? Just 2 minutes ago you were giving out such good answers… You said we will send flowers, bouquets. Wont you send blessings? What is the meaning of blessings? Even though someone is doing wrong/bad with me I will not hate the person. I will not think bad about that person. Because I now know why the person is behaving/acting this way. And now I have to correct this karmic account. I don’t have to close it. It does not get closed Close means I will not create a single thought about you and you will not create a single thought about me. This is not going to happen. It can change….It can change That from now onwards, what I will think about you will only be blessings and good wishes. As soon as we do this, we will change the quality of our karmic account. Only one person has to change. We have heard from childhood – “As is our deed, so will be the return” Only one person has to do it. One is needed to change the karmic account. But if there is only negative energy exchange – from me to you – then from you to me – and so on…it is getting more and more complex. And while exchanging this negative energy if one of the two changes the costume (leaves the body) We will meet again and it gets more complicated at that time. Because now we don’t even remember who is who. We are unknowingly sending negative energy. We meet a few people and we don’t know why we are not feeling good about meeting them. Doesn’t it happen? And when we meet a few other people we won’t know why we feel good. Some people are our family members …brother, sister… but we cannot bond well with them While we bond very well with some people who are not family/related to us But we say they are more than family. Why? Because some time in the past we had exchanged very beautiful energy So, relationship is not on the label. Relationship is based on the quality of energy we exchange with each other. So, ready to send blessings? Still not ready? Diwali is coming next month And you will make a list of gifts to buy. What is the criteria to give gifts? What did they give last year? Naturally if someone gifted us worth 1,000 Rupees, we will also gift them something of the same amount We wont gift them something of 10,000. So we maintain a list…some people literally maintain and refer it every year. This is one way of living. Now, if I get to know that the gift I give them on 1st day of Diwali is going to come back to me after 4 days. Sometimes it does come after exchanging a few hands. So now if I know I will get the same gift back…Now what will I buy for you? I will buy for you what I want. Because I am 100% certain 4th day it is coming back to me. I will not say that they gave me only worth 1,000 rupees. I will say it does not matter what they gave me last year. If I like something worth 50,000 also, I will gift it Because now I know what I am giving now as a gift is going to come back to me. This is law of karma The energy I give someone is going to come back to me. So, whatever you want in life just keep giving that. Happiness, Respect, Trust, Love – we want all these. So, keep giving. We are getting these while giving and also while receiving. But if we say that they gave less so I am also going to give less then… destiny is my choice. Give blessings to those who are doing wrong with us. What is a blessing? It is only a thought. Someone asked – If someone does something wrong with us should we do a legal case against them? What is the answer? Do what is right. One is to do a legal case. The other is to hate the person from inside There is a difference between the two. With many we do not take any action from outside but internally hate them. Karmic account is very strong We will do what is legally right but will give blessings from inside We will not do anything wrong with this soul anymore as already a lot of wrong has already been done. If there is a conflict with someone we should first clear that quickly. To avoid any further exchange of negative energy. Everyday in our meditation, emerge them and give them a message That was our past. That was the consequence of our past It is over From today, we begin a new account From today onwards there is just love, respect and blessings between us. Just give this message to them through the mind This will first correct our own energy. And this will influence them too. They will also start sending good energy to us. And even if they don’t send good energy to us, it does not matter. Because my karma decides my destiny, their karma doesn’t write my destiny. One thing we have to be very clear – my karma writes my destiny If I hate you, harm will not be caused to you, but to me. Because my hatred writes my destiny. We feel if we think wrong for someone it will affect them Or there is another fear these days – That someone is thinking bad about me or cursed me… That is the reason wrong things are happening with me. Or we say it is the effect of someone’s evil eye on us What does effect of an evil eye mean? What does effect of an evil eye mean? It means if someone created a thought that my hospital should shut down…so things started to go wrong with me. Can this happen? Sister, I will create a thought from here now…I will create a thought – “Let her fall from the sofa” Why…I can do it if I am jealous of her… because of her no one is coming to my clinic. May she fall from the sofa. I just thought of her falling down…if she falls she will be on the bed for 6 months so all patients will come to me Will she fall, if I think so? Can she fall? If I think 24×7 ‘fall… fall…fall…”
Will she fall? no If all of us sitting here create a thought for her to fall, will she fall? no….but…. The day she creates a thought – “They are creating thoughts that I should fall’ ‘What if I fall’ That day she will fall. And that day she will not say fell because of her thought. She will say – “I fell because they created these thoughts.” We always put the blame on others and we remove our factor from between Let all think bad about us Their thoughts do not decide our destiny. The only thing that can happen is that their thought energy reach us. If our thought becomes negative because of fear or insecurity then that writes our destiny Their thoughts do not write our destiny, but yes their energy can influence our thought process. But if we charge our battery everyday. If we connect ourselves with The Supreme Soul everyday, then irrespective of what others think, how will be our thoughts? Pure – and our destiny is secure. We are so full of fear these days that we don’t share with others about good things happening in our lives. Its very interesting. This happened last week … I went to a hospital and there were two doctors. There were 2 doctors and one doctor said – “Sister, do you know…this doctor performed 102 surgeries last month.” I said – “Congratulations, Doctor” The doctor said “He circulated this news on Whatsapp and since 4 days I haven’t got a single surgery case” Look at the element of fear and look at the way of connecting the two things. If this is the degree of fear and superstition we have, what quality of thoughts do we create about others? Even if someone congratulates, we feel the person has a problem with us…that’s why no work has been coming since 4 days. This karma of ours is writing our destiny. This is the checking needed of every thought of mine. Checking its quality. If we are doing very well. Even if other people have a problem with it, nothing can influence you. It only starts influencing if we start having a problem that they have a problem. If someone is jealous with you, what should be your feelings towards that person? Out of jealousy the person might say something about you. What should my feelings be towards that person? The one who is jealous or insecure, is in pain 24 X 7 The suffering of emotional illness is much more than the suffering of physical illness And there is no medicine for it…to take and finish the pain. Taking a few things in the evenings is a different story. It does not reduce the emotional pain. It just makes the soul weak. The more we increase the dependency, and the more we try to distract from the pain by using other methods The wound will only get deeper. So, never create fear that somebody else doesn’t think nicely about me. And have lot of compassion for those who are jealous or insecure. insecurity seems to be a very fast spreading illness. Even someone who is doing extremely well and is right at the top, is insecure of someone who is very young and who has just joined the organization. There are people who are in the selection team..who will not select somebody who is very good. Fearing that tomorrow that person might become a threat to me. This is how we are thinking these days We need to check our thoughts so subtly. Help others move ahead of you. Whatever you know, teach others Teach others everything, make them better than you. What will you get in return? One is “I”, what I know. Ask someone the recipe of a curry she cooked well. She will not give a clear answer. She wont share the recipe Why? Because I get all the appreciation only for that recipe. And if I share the recipe…you will also get that appreciation, or you might cook better than me. Then what will happen to me It is a law – If I know a little and I don’t share it with anyone, then my knowledge will not increase. And by me not sharing…what people will think about me… as I am not co-operating with them, nor sharing or teaching them, That will reduce the power of the soul further. Next option – whatever you know, share with everyone. Make others so good that people say –
“Ma’am, she is now even better than you”. Then what will happen? The easiest way to increase your capacity is to earn blessings. By not earning blessings, the capacity will remain the same or may even gradually deplete.