Two of the presiding ideals of the romance
today are soul mates and twin flames. We are going to discuss that in a little bit. Soul
mates came to us, from Richard Bach, the books that he wrote. A lot of people have added
to this soul mate condition that we exist and that we have a soul mate and we have to
look for the soul mate. This isn’t necessarily true. Also, there is a twin flame theory and
it was some information generated from a higher source saying that there are twin flames and
that proposes that we as souls are split in half and this other part of us are our twin
flame and that completes us. I find this to be very incorrect and that in my years I have
never found anything comparable to that. What I would like to do is to dispel the myth of
the soul mate and the twin flames and say that you can find someone that matches your
characteristics and traits, very easily. But, I kind of that it is more fun and exciting
to find someone who has different characteristics and traits to balance the traits that you
already have. The soul mate and twin flame theory keeps us like an illusion that we should
be looking for this specific person, someone who is going to come and complete our lives.
What is very important to know is that we are already complete. We do not need someone
else’s energy to complete our own energy which is because we are complete within ourselves.
So, to search for a soul mate is actually searching for an illusion and that to hope
we have a twin flame makes us important. We don’t live our lives until we find our other
half. Looking for soul mates we do not tend to work on relationships that we have worked
on work on the energy’s between us because we think that perhaps there is a soul mate
out there that could balance us better. We are already balanced so when we have the relationship
it us up to us to know the characteristics of the other person to know there vibrations
and to accept and understand who they are. And only through that, we can create a soul
mate relationship but never a twin flame.