Why It’s Hard To Love Yourself Based On Your Zodiac Sign

Why It’s Hard To Love Yourself Based On Your Zodiac Sign


Why It’s Hard To Love Yourself Based On
Your Zodiac Sign Hello once again Bestie viewer, welcome back
to the cosmic side of Bestie where we look to the stars to answer your questions. Today we’ll look at why you’re so hard
on yourself, and how you can better love yourself according to your zodiac sign. Why not share that love, click subscribe and
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the end. ARIES Everyone likes a little friendly competition
now and again Aries, but when you’re fighting yourself all the time, you’re never gonna
win! On the outside you’re very confident, and
people love that about you, but on the inside Aries, you’re your own worst enemy. It’s time to put the negative self talk
away, and focus on what you do have. Stop comparing yourself to others and give
yourself some credit. There are times to be competitive but it shouldn’t
be all the time. One thing you could try to help love yourself
more, Aries is to take up a solo sport like kickboxing, or challenge yourself with some
intense yoga! That way you can still be driven, but not
so competitive that you’ll feel down about yourself. TAURUS You love the feeling of running a tight
ship Taurus, you’re responsible and crave stability. Often when you set your mind to something
you achieve it, however when something doesn’t work out the way you planned you can get really
down on yourself. Sometimes things happen, or don’t happen
for a reason and while this may throw off the original plan these are the moments that
keep life exciting. Stability can be a wonderful thing but you
don’t want to get complacent. Keep those skills sharp and try to look at
these unexpected moments as opportunities rather than set backs. Something you can do to help love yourself
more Taurus is to carve out some time for relaxation and the things that make you happy. Whatever hobby you love to do, schedule it
into your week and make yourself a priority GEMINI You are extremely adaptable Gemini,
and you love to keep life exciting. Because you’ve got such a taste for the
new and lust for life you’ve gained a lot of knowledge when it comes to the world around
you. However Gemini…you don’t know everything,
and that’s okay! You can be a jack of all trades and master
of some. This should just fuel you more to get out
there and keep learning. Sometimes you get down on yourself when you
don’t have all the answers, but because you’re such an intelligent sign, you should
take this as a blessing. There will always be more out there to satisfy
your curious and spontaneous nature, and that’s pretty exciting. One way to help you love yourself more is
to keep learning, and surround yourself with friends who motivate and inspire you. CANCER One of the best qualities about you,
Cancer is your ability to make those around you feel so loved. You’re extremely caring and are very emotionally
attuned. If only you could see in yourself what you
see in others. It’s hard for you to love yourself when
you’re not feeling the love you give in return, but you don’t need the validation
of others to do that. Even if you feel like you may be giving too
much of yourself away, don’t let that get you down instead try to focus some of that
care on yourself, too Cancer. One way you can love yourself a little more
is by not giving too much of your attention away to those who don’t deserve it. Surround yourself with friends and family
that make you feel good, and cut out those who do not, or who demand too much of your
attention without giving any back in return. LEO You are often the life of the party Leo
and are usually a very driven sign. You love to entertain and to keep the party
going. However when you’re not in the spotlight
you get quite sad and can sometimes feel like you’re not loved by anyone. This just isn’t true, Leo. Life can’t be a party all the time, and
you can’t always be in the spotlight. You need to find ways of loving yourself,
even when others are not fawning over you (which they often do). It’s a harsh truth that there are people
in this world who we just won’t get along with and that’s okay. You can’t obsess about the reasons why and
try to solve it. You have so many friends around who DO love
you for who you are so leave all that negativity and stress behind. One of the ways you can help you love yourself
is to find a hobby or activity that where you can shine, like an acting class or some
kind of performing. Something that will allow you to express yourself
in an environment that allows it. VIRGO One of the hardest working signs in
the zodiac, you Virgo love enjoying the spoils of all your hard earned labour. You’re always trying to be the best version
of yourself and have very high standards for yourself. However, these high standards can translate
into being a perfectionist and mean that you’re constantly nit picking over every little detail
of your life. You can’t be perfect all the time and you
need to allow yourself to be okay with that. Hey, if we never make mistakes, we never learn,
right? Extreme focus and hard work will serve you
very well in this life, Virgo but don’t let it get you down so much when things do
go as planned. Try to see those moments as a chance to get
to know yourself a little better, and learn from it. One way to love yourself a little more Virgo
is to channel that focus into something you can be proud of in your down time. You don’t like being unproductive so something
like gardening, or cooking will give you a sense of pride while also allowing you to
relax just a little. LIBRA You are someone who can understand both
sides of the story Libra, and you don’t like to see conflict amongst your friends. Often times you’d rather just stay out of
it then get caught up in all the drama. However, later on you’ll usually get pretty
down on yourself for not sticking up for what you believe it. You’re too afraid that if you say something
a friend will disagree with you and they’ll never be your friend again. That’s probably not true Libra. You are very intelligent and you have a good
head on your shoulders, you just need to stand up for your view once in a while. Don’t let people walk all over you and then
turn on yourself and regret it later. People want to hear what you have to say,
and you should start expressing your thoughts and opinions, you’ll feel more fulfilled
in the friendships you have now, plus you’ll be a little nicer to yourself for having the
courage to say all those things you’ve always wanted to. Since you love to keep the peace on the outside,
Libra keeping yourself balanced on the inside will do wonders when it comes to loving yourself. Take some time to meditate every now and again,
and eventually you’ll find you can engage with those around you more easily and with
a clearer head. SCORPIO You are passionate and so much fun
to have around, Scorpio. People love being with you and you don’t
usually find it hard to make friends. When it comes to love however, you tend to
go for those who you know are not the best fit for you. Someone who you know you’ll never have to
show your vulnerable side too. In turn you feel like no one really knows
you, and you tear yourself down with negative self talk about deserving better. You do deserve better, Scorpio and you don’t
have to be scared of showing your softer side. In fact, allowing yourself to open up to someone
else will do wonders for your mental health. You can trust those around you, and in turn
trust yourself more. Vulnerability isn’t a sign of weakness,
and you should embrace it more. To help love yourself even more, try opening
up more to your friends (a Gemini would be perfect for this) and learn to talk about
those things going on deep down. In turn you’ll get to know your friends
better, and yourself. SAGITTARIUS If you could do everything at
least once in this lifetime you would Sagittarius. You don’t like the feeling of missing out
and while you keep your schedule packed with fun times and lots of new adventures, it never
seems to be enough. You have to allow yourself to enjoy the great
adventures you are going on, even though you can’t do everything. You sometimes get down on yourself thinking
about the things you can’t do, and really Sagittarius you need to give yourself a boost
for all the amazing things you have done, and learned. Unfortunately you probably won’t get to
do everything you’ve always wanted to do, but that doesn’t mean you’re not going
to do some pretty amazing stuff in the meantime. You just have to practice gratitude a little
more and stop worrying about the moments you’re missing, and learn to be present in the moments
you’re experiencing right now. How you can learn to love yourself even more
Sagittarius, keep going on those adventures. Try to always have something planned that
you can look forward to, even if it’s not someplace halfway around the globe. CAPRICORN You are often compared to the Virgo,
Capricorn because you’re both very hard working signs. You also hold yourself to very high standards
and are forever pushing yourself to be better. You often obtain your goals and are so focused
you can accomplish most things you put your mind to. Keep in mind, even if you don’t reach the
top, don’t scoff at the progress you’ve made along the way. All your success isn’t worthless, and you’ve
come so far to be the person you are today. Just because you didn’t get to that next
level as quickly as you wanted to doesn’t mean you didn’t put in the work. Try to love yourself even when you aren’t
successful, and allow yourself a little time to recover when you need it. One way to love yourself even more Capricorn
is to plan. You love to set goals for yourself, so why
not set some that aren’t so difficult, like making sure you’re happy. Schedule in some time to build up your relationships
with those you love, or maybe try something brand new. You probably won’t be the best at it, and
you know what? That’s perfectly okay. AQUARIUS Confidence is something that comes
naturally to you Aquarius. You’re so unique and creative and that draws
people to you. However, because you’re such an out of the
box thinker, and you don’t have any trouble expressing who you are this leaves you thinking
that maybe you’re too much of an outsider. Sometimes you think that maybe you should
just go with the flow and try to blend in more when it comes to your lifestyle, but
that would be such a terrible loss Aquarius. People love you so much because you’re a
breath of fresh air. You are one of the more intelligent signs
and you know that this world is for the taking and you should be proud of the one you’ve
created. Honestly, the world needs more people like
you and you have no idea how many people you inspire on a regular basis. Don’t beat yourself up for being an original,
and never stop chasing your dreams Aquarius. If someone doesn’t understand you, then
it’s their loss and nothing you should ever internalize with negative self talk. Make yourself happy Aquarius by helping a
cause you truly believe in. It could be your community, a non profit or
even just a friend but at the end of the day it’ll give your self confidence a boost,
and make you proud of who you are. PISCES Pisces you’re the friend everyone
goes to when they have a problem. You’re wise beyond your years and really
to love to help out your friends by always being there for them when they need you. However, sometimes you have to say no. You wear yourself out always being there for
everyone else that you don’t take any time for you. You are such an amazing friend, no one is
going to be upset with you if you start taking on a little less. Try not to internalize everyone else’s issues
so much and give yourself a little space to focus on you once in a while. In the end it’ll not only make you happier,
it’ll actually make you a better friend because you’ve have time to charge your
own batteries. One way you can love yourself a little more,
Pisces is to carve out more time for you. Lighten up your schedule a little more and
get some more sleep! Learn to enjoy your own company, and then
when you do help your friends, it’ll be much more meaningful. Did the stars help you today? Let us know your zodiac sign in the comments
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